Testify Tuesday: Lease or Zipcar?

When I first separated, I admit I may have wanted to speed through some stop signs. However, I found less haphazard ways of channeling my hurt and feelings of deprivation. While speaking to a friend today, I settled on the notion that to "take a spin" I need a little more than someone who is … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Lease or Zipcar?

Testify Tuesday: Approval Rating 

If you're a parent of a teen or a young adult in their early twenties your approval rating may vacillate a great deal with them.  If you are the type of person who does the right thing instead of what's popular, well you are quite aware of your approval rating with the masses.  However, there … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Approval Rating 

Testify Tuesday: The Trap

OK, so if you're like me and you've had Radric a.k.a. Gucci Mane a.k.a. Gucci Laflare a.k.a. #GUWOP in steady rotation, let's clarify something right now, I'm not talking about that type a trap! 😂 We all have fallen into it this trap a time or two in our lives. We are actively engaged in … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: The Trap

Testify Tuesday: Fake Ones

I got, no time for fake ****. Just sip some Cristal with these real **** -Lil' Kim After watching the VH1 Hip Honors I am securely in my Lil Kim bag.  But truthfully I do not have time for fake ones, never have.  So much so it accompanies a bible verse in my high school yearbook. … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Fake Ones

Testify Tuesday:Independent Women Make Some Noise

In all truth, you need to hush, take a seat, and put your feet up girl because I know you tired!  I have been separated a mere four days and I am about to pass out from exhaustion and the noxious smell of gasoline on my hands. Yes, the unapologetic feminist is going to say … Continue reading Testify Tuesday:Independent Women Make Some Noise

Year in Review… 

Understand that in my transparency,  "I'm too blind to watch my mouth"! ~Chrisette Michelle I sat on this cold concrete floor in my empty apartment in Atlanta 367 days ago.  I was full of joy, ambition, and hope.  It did not matter that the movers had bailed, that we were exhausted, that waters were uncharted, … Continue reading Year in Review… 

Testify Tuesday: Delight vs. Devotion 

First, this post has NOTHING to do with food.  I just have not posted a good food pic in quite awhile and I felt like this blog needed one.  However, if we are talking about delight here, I have been known to delight in food porn every now and again.  Now on to the topic … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Delight vs. Devotion 

Testify Tuesday: Don’t Memorialize Your Trouble 

Okay, so I forgot it was Tuesday! Forgive me! I learned.. Some events, people, and moments are worth building memorials in remembrance of. Your troubles are not! Stop building monuments to honor that shattered heart, that failed business, that weight you've been trying to lose for five years, that insecurity you swear you're hiding but … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Don’t Memorialize Your Trouble 

Testify Tuesday: Change of Perspective 

I stood in my home suffocating. No carbon monoxide wasn't leaking, we don't have natural gas. There was no smoke, no flames, no fire. I just felt like the air had been sucked out of my quaint high rise apartment. I opened the windows and a rush of unseasonably cold air blew quickly through the … Continue reading Testify Tuesday: Change of Perspective